Choices
I have always told my kids that life is a matter of making choices. We make them every day, hundreds of them; big ones and little ones, what to wear, what to eat; to smile, to frown, to praise, to grumble; to love to hate, to accept responsibility or make excuses. Life is about choices and the choices we make will effect our lives immeasurably.
Recently my daughter Lindsey and her husband Neil have been faced with some major decisions that could change their lives dramatically. Neil is a very talented young man. It seems when you have a lot of talent you also have a lot of options and you want to make sure you choose the right things in order to use your gifts to the max. The answers are not always black & white, easy or clear but I believe, with much prayer, that God will lead you in the right direction.
I am reminded of a story I heard a long time ago about a group of hunters in Africa. They went into the jungle and found a tree where there were many monkeys. They took hot coals and burned a small hollow place in the tree and in the hollow they placed a piece of fruit. A monkey would reach into the hole to grab the fruit. With his fist wrapped tightly around the fruit he was unable to get his hand back out of the hole.
The hunters easily captured the monkey because he simply would not let go. He gave up his freedom for a piece of fruit. Sometimes our life is just like that. The things we love, our dreams and hopes, are not so easy to let go; however, our plans and desires are not always the plans and desires that God has in store for us. Sometimes we have to let go in order to experience the freedom that comes in knowing we are doing God's will in our life.
God continues to bless us so much and we are so thankful for what he is doing in our lives. We have had an awesome week and would like to share a few photos from a wedding and a family/maternity session we had this week. God bless you all.
The first pics are from a wedding we did in High Point, NC. Lizzy and Allan were so in to each other and the families and friends were so awesome to be around. My daughter Lindsey was my second shooter. She did such a good job! I hope she will join me again; she is so talented.
The next two images are from a session with Tiffany, Brandon and Nikolas with a new baby on the way! We wish you the best and look forward to meeting the new little Hargett boy.



























